I was having BM lesson with didi one evening and when he heard the commotion near the aquarium, his head turned swiftly and straight hopped over to join them.I was about to yell my head off for the umpteenth time to haul his ass back to the chair and his book, but when I saw the 4 of them hurdled together like that, I yau have no heart to do that.
It was such a heartwarming moment, to see the children, MY children, to have such a close bond with their father. This man I married, though has a LOT of flaws in him, (OK! so I'm not that perfect either and yes, I made the choice to marry him) he comes home every night after work without fail to be with his family, at least 99% of the time, not counting the days he was overseas.
Never mind he doesn't do housework, he works hard to fill our tummies and spend (though not very lavishly) on us. I am very grateful that he doesn't like side night activities to "bersosial" with "friends" to build a better network and seal more deals. I'm fine with the comfortable life I'm having, though he begs to differ. He is always striving for more $$. Go ahead, make more money, I'm not stopping you, but you still need to come back home after work!
I think whether a child is close to his dad or not shows a lot of the amount of love between them. (Or maybe my 3 kids are just TOO fed up with me the whole day and very happy to see their dad's face for a change in the evening!)
(Now, just in case you are wondering, I dedicate this post to talk fondly of him NOT because he had, over the weekend, FINALLY bought the watch he had been yearning for FOR YEARS!! and not only that, koko got his watch he yearned for AS WELL and of course, I had MINE TOO!!! I love it, and yes, I love you, my dear hubby) *wink*
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Is the father of your children one of the approved readers of this blog? If yes, you may get another watch! :D
You also need to give him a surprise gift to show your appreciation that he doesn't "bersosial" at night with "friends". Your gift no need money one, you know la what gift to give - since you so pandai *wink* ;)
ahhh...that's very sweet of him lah.
mun,
no, he's not a reader yet. he's not interested to read, but i told him i'm gonna continue writing anyway so when i'm not here anymore, this can last him for awhile whilst he misses me. *imagine him crying whilst reading* :)
as for the *wink*, it was just a pasar malam punya watch wor... so not worth the *wink* to give him lor...must save it for more expensive stuffs la wei!
jessy,
ok lerr... once in awhile.
eh, wait! he's only sweet becoz he pissed me off earlier.
Wah, pasar malam watch also not enough to pak toh with wife. Damn tarik harga wei....LOL
mamapumpkin,
go on a date means have to do the whole works lor, make up, set hair, dress up, fine dining, walk on the beach, supper, karaoke, hot steamy sex... too much work! i so not free leh.. *watching shanghai bund*
hmmm very good hubby u got there who dont bersosial one......
Once in a while, give him a wild surprise..I'm sure he will likey!!
Aiya, Gargles, the *wink* is not for the watch he gave you la. The *wink* is so that he looks forward to bersosial with you since he is so guai not to go out to bersosial at night, paham? ;)
Littlelamb,
uhm...wild surprise is like, whole house turned into a jungle with some wild animals?? ;)
Mun,
yeah, u r right. Ok, I add him on Facebook and messenger so we can bersosial. What? This the "in" thing wuddd...
*ahem ahem* let ur imagination run wild...try something u hv not tried b4???
btw i dont hv a husband to appreciate. so for all of u here...do goda ur hubs ;p
littlelamb,
ok! let's see what we have.... handcuffs, whips, rotan.... would be enough for now, eh?
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