Riding on the Olympics heatwave, I started some "challenges" for the 3 youngsters too.
Being frustrated with the constant nagging, pleading, begging which at most times would turn into desperation, threats and punishments to instill well mannerism and good behavior in the house, I have, this week, started on the "Olympics" challenge for them at home.
I read from a friend of mine, physiomom's, blog that she used this trick to encourage her children to be helpful at home sometime ago when she was adapting to her "maid-less" days. Told myself that "hey, it sounds to be a good one, can try it on my youngsters". But being me, the normal me, had been procrastinating, dragging.. until I finally decided to take my lazy butts off the couch and do something finally.
And up on the fridge is a paper with their names on it. The game is to get as many "stamps" or "chops" (as they call it) under their names, so by the end of the week, whoever gets the most will get to ask from me whatever he/she wants to eat or get. Of course got a limit, later they say they want me to buy a real big playground for them, I'll be ... a toothless witch and liar! And that is something I do not like, honest.
So, it's darn easy to get one chop. Just do a good deed, either be helpful, or show good manners or do what I tell them to do, and there! I just can't understand why children feel so delighted to do "chopping". Such a simple act, and it pleases them till no end. Why ah?
Anyway, so far, the progress and results seem to be quite good. It does encourages positive behavior and challenges to beat the other. Only thing is, the youngest being clueless on what's happening would whisper and nag non-stop to me "mommyyyy... i want a chop".. what to do? curi curi chop one chop there for her loh. Else, she won't stop nagging, give me headache only.
I hope the Olympics heat won't die off so soon. Hmm.. where's the fireworks to officiate the opening ceremony of Home Olympics here, huh?
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BING BING BANG BANG.. Kaboom.. there.. lit for u oredi. 10 feet long pau jiong.. Geng moe?
Chop me piss.. i want ello kitty.. dun wan autarman.. ah that one.. pink karrer one..
I also dunno why they get so high when get stamped. I draw smiley faces onli ler.. cheap moe? Stamp also harn fahn..
hehe.. tenkiu so much for the paujiong sponsorship. Yes, it's even more "geng" than beijing olmpics alrite!
chop you? ok, i chop you on the neck, haha..
last time i used to draw smiley faces too, like you so kedekut, but these chops ah.. it provides a different kind of ecstasy for the children, so, ok la, waste 1 buck only, go and spend it la...
Hi S.Y, thnks for the free publicity and traffice to my blog. glad my idea can be an example to you. BTW I sent you a tag. check out my blog and participate OK. take care
Hi Gargies, when we were young, to get pocket money...for my sisters, it was washing dishes, cleaning the house.
Me? Washing my father's car. Or pulling out the lovegrass from his high stockings, as well washing and polishing his ever muddy, dirty shoes, he being a rubber estate planter, consultant old days.
Mowing the grass I would get Rgt 3. Washing car, Rgt 1. Ha ha. But we sure learned the value of money.
You keep well and have a nice week, Lee.
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